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	<title>Comments on: Cancer Chronicles: Denying Death&#8217;s Due</title>
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		<title>By: Mary Bass</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mary Bass</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Aug 2010 20:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Being different and isolated from others, including loved ones, due to health problems is a difficult path to walk.  I've had death hanging over my head in a number of instances and at some points have been told that my time on earth was to be short.  So far, I've proved the medical people wrong on this score.  To see people around me move in normal ways, ways I've forgotten within myself, is a source of wonder and sometimes sadness.  Those around me can't truly understand, no matter how much they care for me, that I'm in constant pain and what that means and what it's like to suffer the crushing of heavy fatigue all the time and that there is never a complete adjustment when limbs won't work properly or my mind won't do what I wish it to do.  The "being alone" factor is not a good place to be but there's no way around it as, thankfully, friends and family can't really "get" where and how I live every day.

A poem I wrote a few years ago that's been published, is in the office of my primary care physician, and hangs in two hospitals in Manchester, England is an explanation.

A Bridge Too Far

With eyes that see each length and width
of all we choose to view,
we cannot know of the eyes
that capture no shape or hue.

With legs that travel near and far
wherever we command,
there's no way we can fathom
those who cannot stand.

With arms that do flex and stretch
with ease while at no cost,
we lack the understanding
of those with functions lost.

With words and nodding heads,
the signals that we show,
we think we are informed
when there's nothing we can know.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Being different and isolated from others, including loved ones, due to health problems is a difficult path to walk.  I&#8217;ve had death hanging over my head in a number of instances and at some points have been told that my time on earth was to be short.  So far, I&#8217;ve proved the medical people wrong on this score.  To see people around me move in normal ways, ways I&#8217;ve forgotten within myself, is a source of wonder and sometimes sadness.  Those around me can&#8217;t truly understand, no matter how much they care for me, that I&#8217;m in constant pain and what that means and what it&#8217;s like to suffer the crushing of heavy fatigue all the time and that there is never a complete adjustment when limbs won&#8217;t work properly or my mind won&#8217;t do what I wish it to do.  The &#8220;being alone&#8221; factor is not a good place to be but there&#8217;s no way around it as, thankfully, friends and family can&#8217;t really &#8220;get&#8221; where and how I live every day.</p>
<p>A poem I wrote a few years ago that&#8217;s been published, is in the office of my primary care physician, and hangs in two hospitals in Manchester, England is an explanation.</p>
<p>A Bridge Too Far</p>
<p>With eyes that see each length and width<br />
of all we choose to view,<br />
we cannot know of the eyes<br />
that capture no shape or hue.</p>
<p>With legs that travel near and far<br />
wherever we command,<br />
there&#8217;s no way we can fathom<br />
those who cannot stand.</p>
<p>With arms that do flex and stretch<br />
with ease while at no cost,<br />
we lack the understanding<br />
of those with functions lost.</p>
<p>With words and nodding heads,<br />
the signals that we show,<br />
we think we are informed<br />
when there&#8217;s nothing we can know.</p>
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